/srv/irclogs.ubuntu.com/2009/08/28/#ubuntu-ops.txt

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mnainesI take it everyone's asleep...02:45
* mneptok yawns02:46
mneptokmnaines: how can we help?02:46
mnainesOh, I just came in to see if I could get a ban removed02:46
mneptokin what channel? who set the ban?02:47
mnainesFlannel set the ban, and it was in the main Ubuntu channel...Apparently, I got banned because I was bashing Windows Vista02:48
mnainesThat guy is a handful sometimes02:48
mneptokyes, Vista can be a handful02:49
mnainesFlannel is a handful, too...Hard to reason with him because of his one-track mind02:49
mnainesHe seems more intent on enforcing the rules than he does on helping people02:49
mneptokand that track, in your estimation, is ... ?02:50
mneptokit might occur to you that enforcing the rules *does* help people, by allowing the channel to operate in a way that allows people to get help.02:50
mnaineswell, he takes it to the extreme...If you don't talk about Ubtuntu-related stuff or if you're just sitting idle in the room, he kicks you out02:51
mneptoki have yet to see anyone get kicked for idling in #ubuntu02:51
mneptokif you would like to produce evidence from the public logs, i'll gladly adjust my perceptions02:52
mnainesI routinely see "Connection reset by peer" and other messages when people leave02:52
mneptokand #ubuntu is only for Ubuntu support.02:52
mneptokand you think that's Flannel?02:52
mnainesAnyway, the issue in question stemmed from someone wanting to dual-boot Windows Vista and Ubuntu, and when I tried to talk the guy out of using Vista, I got banned02:53
mneptokbecause that's not helpful02:53
mneptok#ubuntu is not a channel for you to grind your own political axes02:54
mnainesHe said he only had 2GB of RAM and he wanted Windows to play games on...I knew right then that Vista wasn't going to run on his machine very well and tried to tell him that02:54
mneptokand if the game he referred to was Minesweeper?02:54
mnainesEven then, Vista itself is a pig...The Vista Aero desktop itself requires at least 2GB to run without any lag02:55
mneptokand if he had Home Basic?02:55
mnainesAnd don't even get me started about how Vista does not stop running the hard drive at 100% all because of the "Windows Search Index" service02:56
mneptokyou can disable services in Windows.02:56
mnainesMost users should not take such a risk unless they have an expert to talk them through it02:56
jdongindeed, and it could possibly be doing something useful using background IO :)02:56
mneptok#ubuntu is not a channel in which to foist your personal computing choices on others.02:57
mnainesIts not a personal computing choice...Its one of those "I don't want to see you make the same mistakes I made" sort of thing02:57
mneptokoh, charming02:57
mneptok19:57 [Freenode] [mnaines(n=mnaines@65.26.54.242)] Bot Sentry engaged:  you are now being ignored!  Your message will be delivered if you can correctly answer the following question within 10 minutes:  How do you spell the number 10?02:58
mneptokbecause of a CTCP02:58
mnainesYeah...I had to spend $2,500 on a quad-core machine just to be able to run my games without any lag on Vista Home Premium02:58
mneptokmnaines: can you hear me now?02:59
mnainesYes02:59
mneptokgood02:59
mneptoki suggest you disable that script while talking in -ops02:59
mneptoki see that you use Pidgin for IRC02:59
mnainesIt only applies if you IM me...I don't accept IMs from people in chat02:59
mnainesThat is a mentality I carry with me from my Yahoo Chat experience03:00
mneptokirssi is a vastly superior IRC client. how about i spend an hour or so discussing you choice of IRC client before we discuss that ban?03:00
mnainesAs long as it is a clean and civil debate, I'm all for it03:00
mneptokor, better yet, why don;t i leave my personal computing decisions at the door, and discuss with you the topic you wanted to discuss when you /join'ed this channel?03:01
mnainesI only chose Pidgin so I can have all my instant messengers and chat programs in one place03:01
mneptokwouldn't that be a better use of our time?03:01
mnainesYes, it would03:01
mneptoki'm glad we agree.03:01
mneptokmay we expect the same discretion from you in Ubuntu channels in the future?03:02
mnainesWell, its hard to get me to disagree with such trivial matters...Ever since I was born, I have always tried to find some sort of middle ground on topics I could not agree on03:02
mneptokthe middle ground in #ubuntu is "help the person with the issue they are asking about, refer them to the proper place if it is not Ubuntu-related, or remain silent."03:03
mnainesIts a two-way street...My experience here in IRC isn't quite up to par yet...My experience in Yahoo chat is such that people totally disregard the room topic and talk about whatever is on their minds...But Yahoo's rooms are limited to 50 users maximum03:03
mneptokwelcome to the real world, Neo.03:04
mnainesSometimes the proper place isn't good enough...Some of the other rooms aren't anywhere near as active and some of them are dead or dying03:04
mneptok##windows is quite lively03:04
mneptok"You might want to ask about the Vista experience with gaming in ##windows. this is #ubuntu. you might get better advice elsewhere."03:05
mnainesI wasn't talking about ##Windows...I was talking about smaller channels like #python or other places like that03:05
mneptoki can *guarantee* that a response like that will not irk Flannel03:05
mnainesWell, I can agree to that, but I also think Flannel needs to work on his self-discipline...He's beginning to act a lot like my stepdad03:06
mnainesMy stepdad is the type who will go fisticuffs over a parking space if you don't give him enough room to get his fat rear end out of his big duallie diesel truck03:06
mneptokit sounds like issues in one part of your life are spilling over into others, to your detriment.03:07
mneptokbut what do i know? i'm no licensed health professional.03:07
mnainesUnfortunately...And I'm working on fixing that, but I have no help on that matter, and my Asperger Syndrome doesn't make things any better03:08
mnainesI have AS, Tourette Syndrome, and OCD in addition to having a dysfunctional family...You can see how hard it is for me to keep one part of my life from affecting the others03:09
mneptoksadly, Flannel has no control over any of that. but he does have control over the Ubuntu channels, and follows the same guidelines we all do.03:09
mnainesWell, I think you can agree that we all need to work on self-discipline as well...Even I am lacking in that department somedays03:09
mnainesI get stressed out really easily, and when I get stressed out, my common sense and self-discipline go right out the window03:10
mneptokthat's when it's time to leave IRC03:11
mnainesFortunately, the window isn't able to open as much now as it used to when I was in high school...Now, I'm at least able to keep myself from punching someone's face in when I get stressed out03:11
mneptokin through the nose ... out through the mouth ... focus ...03:11
mnainesand I'm beginning to get to the point where music actually calms me down...03:12
mnainesThough when I get to that point, you can't get me to shut up about my favorite songs and why I listen to them03:12
mneptokso, given the OCD, Aspberger's, and Tourette's, do you find it somewhat likely that your behavior is more to blame here than is Flannel's?03:13
mneptoknot YOU. you behavior.03:13
mneptok*your03:13
mneptokFYI, if i had seen you trying to talk people out of using Vista when they were asking for help, i would have been miffed, too.03:14
mneptokso, drop me in the same metal compartment as Flannel, if you please.03:14
mneptok*mental03:14
mnainesWell, I understand my behavior is a problem...It always has been...When I was in grade school, I routinely got in trouble because I wouldn't sit still long enough to pay attention and I had a nasty habit of questioning the teacher...When I got to high school, that changed to being a rebel and anarchist-wannabe and now its changed to being very critical and questioning every order I'm given03:15
mneptokthat's a recipe for disaster in busy IRC channels with stressed and busy volunteer ops.03:16
mneptokbest to nod your head, /join here, and ask, in a civilized and respectful tone, to discuss the issue.03:16
mnainesIts a recipe for CPC everywhere I go...03:16
mnaines"Chaos, panic, confusion..."03:17
mneptokso, let's remove Flannel from the equation, as i would have done the same thing, and by your own admission your behavior is problematic. deal?03:17
mnainesOf course...03:17
mneptoksmashing.03:17
mnainesI know I need to work on my self-discipline, and believe me, I am working on it, but with the way my life is and the fact I don't have any help in that area, its becoming quite a challenge03:18
mneptoknow, i think if you were to apologize to Flannel and to agree to follow all op requests without compaint in *public* channels, and instead complain here in a civilized and respectful way when you thought ops were *really* out of line, that Flannel may well be persuaded to remove your ban.03:19
mnainesFlannel doesn't seem to be active at this time...03:19
mnainesI wouldn't be surprised...Poor guy is probably getting ready for bed...03:20
mneptokhe'll read backscroll. i'll make sure of it.03:20
mnainesUnfortunately, apologies are another challenge for me...03:21
mneptokit doesn't have to be now.03:22
macoi suppose the hard part is figuring out what $FOO is in "i'm sorry that i $FOO"03:22
mneptokgo digest what we've discussed, and come back when you have more to say. perhaps the apology will flow more easily then.03:22
mnainesIts not that the apology can't flow easily...Its that I've always been nervous about doling them out because most of the times I did, they were ignored and nothing was done to resolve the issue03:23
mneptok"I'm sorry I made this about you, rather than about your reaction to my behavior. Please understand, my behavior and my core self are somewhat disjointed because of some issues I have. etc etc etc"03:23
macomnaines: i think the important thing with making an apology is that you made an attempt. whether the person excepts it or not is not up to you, so don't stress over that03:24
mneptokmnaines: Flannel's actually a pretty hoopy frood.03:24
mnainesEvery time I apologized IRL, the responses I always got back were either "You should have thought about that before you committed the crime" or "If you were sorry, you never would have done it"03:24
mnainesI eventually just gave up on it03:24
mneptokmnaines: that says more about the listener than it does about your apology, IMO03:25
mnainesI agree...But now you understand why I get nervous about doling out apologies03:26
macomneptok: a hoopy frood? /me takes away the Douglas Adams03:26
mnainesI'm not a mean drunk...I actually get pretty hyperactive when I'm drunk03:27
mnainesBut then again, I rarely ever drink alcohol...I overdose on caffeine quite a bit, though03:27
mneptokmnaines: Flannel will read this. and i think if you apologize and promise to follow ops' requests, and keep all disagreements here, you may find you make a new friend.03:28
mnainesIts always been hard for me to make friends...Not because of them or anything, but because of my intense shyness03:28
mneptokmnaines: check back in a few whiles, or tomorrow. find the Flannel-man, and have the kind of coversation with him you have had with me.03:28
mnainesMy shyness is so intense at times that I often demote myself to being an observer rather than a participant in the game of life, and there are days where I won't talk to or trust anyone03:29
mneptokwell, someone has to extend the hand first. and thus far, you've been throwing fire at Flannel. i think you'll have to go first. sadly, i think you have yourself to blame for that.03:30
mneptoksucks, i know. but i do it all the time, too.03:30
mnainesOf course...I always have to be the one to fight the fire03:30
mneptokwell, stop setting your house ablaze ;)03:31
mnainesEven in RL...Sometimes IRL, I get stuck cleaning up other people's mistakes because of their habit of blaming the new guy for anything that goes wrong03:31
mnainesSometimes if I'm the bearer of bad news, they seem more intent on shooting the messenger than on actually listening03:32
mneptokmnaines: i'm about to go into Total Bastard Mode because of lack of nicotine. that will suck, because it usually ends with maco pelting me with rocks and garbage (which i deserve).03:32
mnainesOh, I know how that is...I do that a lot when I go through caffeine withdrawl03:33
mneptokmnaines: take the issue up with Flannel down the road when you have had time to cogitate about our convo?03:33
mnainesSure...03:33
mneptokrawk.03:33
macomneptok: nuh uh!03:33
mnainesBy the way, I've handled War Goddesses on PMS, so I'm used to handling people at their worst03:34
macoi have never pelted you with anything03:34
* mneptok beeps maco's nose03:34
maconot even a frozen grape, my usual instrument of torment03:34
mneptokOK, smoke time.03:34
mnainesMy usual instrument of torment is a running faucet...I love turning them on to just a trickle right when the person is at a point and time when they cannot get up to use the bathroom03:35
mneptokmnaines: we have a "no idle" policy in -ops. use "/whois Flannel" to figure out when he;s active.03:35
mneptokmnaines: i had War Godesses On PMS for the Gamecube. it was OK.03:35
mnainesIt doesn't say when he's active...Just says he's "detached"03:35
mneptokno backstory, though.03:36
mnainesmneptok: By War Goddesses on PMS, I mean Dominatrix type women03:36
mneptoki had that game, too. the controller hurt my hands. a lot.03:36
mnainesOr the type who are more comfortable with a .44 mag in each hand than they are with bra03:36
mneptokoh, REAL women. they rock.03:37
mnainesYeah...I can be around those women and not get shot at03:37
mnainesIn fact, I'd be right there with them when they go into torture mode03:37
mneptokso then making up with Flannel should be easy03:37
mnainesShould be...But I don't ever count my chickens before they hatch03:38
mneptokOK, must smoke.03:39
* mnaines hands mneptok a stogie03:39
mneptoktake care, and be nice to Flannel. he tolerates me. there are precious few that do.03:40
mnainesWell, it looks like you just made a new friend03:40
mnainesYou and I have something in common03:40
mneptok\o/03:40
* mneptok heads out like a foetus03:41
* mnaines likes smokers...The smoke keeps the annoying idiots away03:42
elkymnaines just gave a display of utter idiocy in -ot04:25
MsMacoidiocy raised to the 12th power04:26
MsMacothe rest of the channel didnt do much to dampen the flames04:28
elkydidn't do much? didn't do anything.04:29
MsMacook so i get the Understatement Of The Year Award04:29
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Myrttido I want to read the backlog?06:45
naliothMyrtti: only if you're suffering from insomnia06:46
Myrttinalioth: I just woke up and am dressing for work06:46
naliothMyrtti: ah, welcome to the new day, then  :)06:47
elkythe office intarwebs has been shaped... oh yay.07:07
FlannelWhat shape?07:08
jussi01elky: hahahaha... I still cant beleive australia still has download limits, they are so 90's07:08
Flannelgah.  So much noise in there.07:49
indushello07:50
FlannelHi indus, how can we help you today?07:51
indusbrb07:52
MyrttiI want to slap them all07:52
FlannelI come back from getting a snack, and have to deal with this before I get to enjoy it.  Makes me unhappy.07:52
* nalioth is now operating an OpenID server08:01
indushi08:34
indus'do what i say or you will be rebanned' , what is with that? is the ops above users?08:36
indusplease use better statements when having some issue with a user/users08:36
indusor of course can be called to ubuntu-ops for 'discussion'08:36
industhank you08:36
MyrttiFINE08:37
* nalioth blinks08:50
ikoniaI'm done with indus and his attitude09:45
indushi11:54
induswho is responsible for reviewing irc guidelines? anyone please11:55
Priceyindus: The Ubuntu IRC Council maintain them, of which I am a member.11:58
indushello11:58
indushow do i get a  message across to them11:59
indusi mean is there a irc council room?11:59
indusbtw,are you pricechild from the forums?11:59
Priceyindus: I am indeed. You could leave it here, or if you'd prefer it remained private you can drop it into #ubuntu-irc-council or email us at irc-council@lists.ubuntu.com12:00
indusok,do all ops here have acess to that email? or only council members12:01
Priceyindus: Only Council members. You could even just PM me.12:01
indusok thank you,but i prefer emails ,its more professional.12:02
indusiam just going to join that room to check it out for a few min.is that ok?12:02
Myrttiwhat room?12:03
Myrttioh, that12:03
* Myrtti goes to get tea12:03
indusPricey: are you no longer  forum staff now?12:04
indusanyways,i leave now,can expect a mail from me soon12:05
indusMyrtti: enjoy your tea12:05
Priceyikonia: nope, still on there.12:08
MyrttiPricey: fail12:09
PriceyMyrtti: his fault for having a similar name. (ik i mean)12:10
ikoniaPricey: bope what's on where?12:29
Flannelikonia: He's still forum staff12:31
ikoniaoh, repsonding to indus12:32
jussi01ikonia: ping13:47
dejureni have no voice, rigth?14:25
dejurenups...14:25
naliothdejuren: can we help you?14:26
dejurenhi all, who is on the IRC council now?14:26
naliothwhat did you need, dejuren ?14:27
dejurennalioth: nothing special, just asking, as I already brake the scilance...14:28
dejurens/brake/broke/14:28
Myrttiso what brought you here?14:28
gnomefreakdid anyone grab gibmich* about his hostmask?14:29
dejurenthere was an artefact in #ubuntu-bg channel carring seveas as op, since he was member of the council, we met and that was the way he pointed me to find hwa are the new members14:30
ikoniagnomefreak: no signed out14:30
gnomefreakikonia: ok14:30
ikoniadejuren: is there anything you actaully need/want from the council ?14:36
dejurenikonia: no, just establishing a contact...14:37
ikoniadejuren: well the coucil members are Pici elky nalioth Pricey jussi01 if you need anything from them you can contact them or check out more info on this page https://wiki.ubuntu.com/IrcTeam/IrcCouncil14:38
dejurenikonia: tks... going out now14:39
ikoniano problem14:39
ikoniahope that helps14:39
Myrttiin general loco channel issues are handled in #ubuntu-irc14:41
dejurenikonia: yes, tks again14:41
dejurennice day everyone14:41
* mneptok blinks15:09
mneptokwow! dejuren!15:09
mneptok(one of my former colleagues @canonical.com)15:09
mneptokjussi01: 08:14 -!- ftab [n=aftab@58-27-235-222.wateen.net] has joined #ubuntu15:14
mneptok:)15:14
jussi01mneptok: so long as he doesnt act up I really dont mind.15:15
* mneptok doesn't, either15:16
mneptokbut his "i'm not using your channels any more" lasted a full 36 hours. :)15:16
ikonia?16:11
mneptokikonia: problematic user from a day or so ago16:14
ikoniaor really, and he's ex-canonical ?16:15
mneptokikonia: AFAIK, dejuren is stil with Canonical16:16
* mneptok is not16:16
ikoniahow dissapointing that a canonical employee can't behave16:16
mneptok"can't behave?"16:16
ikoniayou said he was a problem user16:16
mneptokno, i said ftab was16:17
ikoniaooooooh16:17
ikoniaoh, well that's obvious16:17
mneptokikonia: i think you need a /dcc of a mug of genii's love :)16:17
ikoniait would appear that way16:17
mneptok(as if *I'M* fully awake)16:18
* genii gets a highlight notice and shows up to hand ikonia a large mug of coffee, then disappear again...16:19
geniihm17:28
topylihmm do we have any practice on how to react to advertising ##club-ubuntu on -ot?17:40
jussi01topyli: speak to, if they dont stop, ban.17:56
jussi01they should know better.17:56
macowill i guess who it was correctly on the first try?17:58
jussi01probably not17:59
macoyou're right17:59
topylijussi01: right18:00
topylitoo late for this one though18:00
spOhi18:01
jussi01spO: hi18:01
spOcna you guys please unban me from #ubuntu , i was banned because i was trolling in #launchpad   .... however, the two channels are totally different18:01
spOit is overzealousness18:01
jussi01spO: 1 moment please18:02
spOinstead of parting #launchpad and getting it off my favorites list of auto join , i fixed myself to get a ban from thta channell.... then i get banned from #ubuntu , but i was not fixing to part nor get banned from that channel18:03
spOeither way, i did not disrupt nor troll in #ubuntu18:04
spOyou might as well gline me if you want to use these ethics18:04
spOie, go ahead and gline me18:04
jussi01spO: as I just said, 1 moment please.18:05
spOi'll be back later18:05
spOafter the op who banned me might calm down or not use emotions in banning so much18:05
mneptokFlannel: meep?18:14
topyli!away > fader|lunch19:17
Flannelmneptok: Hmm?20:19
mneptokFlannel: http://irclogs.ubuntu.com/2009/08/28/%23ubuntu-ops.html20:27
mneptokFlannel: should take you ~15m to read20:27
FlannelIs that last night with mnaines?20:27
mneptokyessah20:28
mneptoki am recommending no specific action. this is purely FYI.20:29
FlannelYeah, I read it last night20:29
ikoniaI still will not accept his actions for a removal of the ban in #ubuntu20:31
ikoniahe STILL thinks he's right and flannel is wrong20:31
mneptokwell, Flannel *is* wrong.20:34
mneptokbut being wrong in the head is a hard requirement for Ubuntu ops.20:34
mneptokso, we all fail.20:34
Flannelby definition!20:34
mneptokexaaaaaaactly :)20:36
mneptokFlannel: don't worry. i love you, man. and not in a creepy way. more in that "i'd like to lock you in my crawlspace and watch 'samurai jack' with you until you become old enough to eat," way.20:37
Flannelsamurai jack is cancelled :(20:38
mneptoki have the DVDs right over here. there ya go ... through the trap door. that's right ...20:38
FlannelAlso, Johnny Bravo is cancelled too.  And stopped being a "one man army" after the first season.20:38
geniiI'm back and forth with work. losher and x404x just got a reminder from me in #u about being offtopic, looks like they may move to -ot hopefully21:06
geniiAlso my connection seems flakey21:06
macotopyli had a talk with him today21:10
macoexplaining that the things he was saying in -ot are o4o and...well actually he had o4o explained to him 2 days ago according to my scrollback...21:11
macothings he was saying yesterday night21:11
maco(when elky and i were annoyed)21:11
geniiThey might need an eye on them, at any rate. I can't properly do it right now21:12
macoyeah i see them -ot and am going "er....?"21:13
macosomething about spam and porn and downloading. i dont know whats going on21:13
topyliwell i'm certainly annoyed21:23
nickspoonPourquoi, monsieur topyli?21:23
topyliprobably too much so to make desicions about this21:23
topylinickspoon: certainly not because of my favorite nickspoon!21:23
nickspoonAw, aren't you the sweetest thing?21:24
topyliyeah, arn't i21:24
genii_Hm21:29
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genii-aroundBleh. Looks like jussi01.com is up/down right now21:34
MsMacoaye21:34
MsMacowhich is why im over here21:35
* genii-around commiserates21:35
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genii-aroundBack up...back down...bah back up...back down....21:36
* genii-around makes coffee21:37
mnainesok...Its Friday...You guys agreed to talk about my ban today21:52
Seeker`who agreed to talk to you?21:57
topylimnaines: who did?21:57
mnainesFlannel21:57
mnainesHe's the one who banned me21:57
topyliright21:58
topylidoesn't seem to be active right now21:58
mnainesYou know the rules about idlers21:59
topyliwhat about them?22:00
mnainesWhy don't they apply in this case?22:00
topylithis is the ops' working room. everyone's pretty much supposed to be here22:00
mnainesThey apply the same to the ops as they do to ordinary users22:00
topylifor example, even if Flannel is away right now, he will note that he's been called22:01
mnainesI don't care.  You guys are the ones who are supposed to be setting the example.  The rules apply to you guys the same way they apply to the rest of us22:01
Priceymnaines: That is not true.22:01
Priceymnaines: Please read the wording of the /topic22:02
MsMacoif he didnt stay here when afk, how would he know you were looking for him?22:02
topylimnaines: the rules are: ops stay on the ops channel. others come in when they have business with ops22:02
mnainesPricey: Right up there in the bold print at the top of the screen it says: "We reserve the right to remove idlers from the channel"22:02
Priceymnaines: Indeed.22:02
Priceymnaines: It does not say. "We will remove idlers from the channel"22:03
mnainesYou remove idle users but not idle ops...Sounds mighty close to hypocrisy to me22:03
MsMacoits the difference between "will" and "may"22:04
MsMacothe topic refers to "may"22:04
* Flannel is back!22:04
FlannelWhat'd I miss?22:04
topylimnaines: study this in your heart22:04
topyliFlannel: the best part!22:04
mnainesMsMaco: Ops don't get any special treatment just because they're ops...22:04
Myrttier, this is ops channel22:04
Myrttiso yes, yes they do22:05
Priceymnaines: They do. This is an ops channel and so they idle here.22:05
Flannelmnaines: If the ops weren't in the ops channel, what would the purpose of the ops channel be?22:05
topylimnaines: ops get much worse treatment than anyone else. now get to your point22:05
Flannel(ie a way to contact them reliably)22:05
mnainesFlannel, my point is, you were AFK, so I was questioning the "we reserve the right to remove idlers from this room" rule you guys have22:05
Myrtti*boggle*22:05
Priceymnaines: To speak on behalf of the IRC Council, we have a policy in this channel, and I will not be using it to remove Flannel for being inactive.22:05
Myrttiso we have the right to remove people, which we may, or may not do22:06
Priceymnaines: It seems Flannel is now aroudn to speak to you about your ban. I hope everyone will let that now happen.22:06
mnainesPricey: Since when did that policy give you the right NOT to police each other?22:06
Priceymnaines: Would you like to discuss this in PM? I don't want it to detract from your intended conversation with Flannel.22:06
Priceymnaines: Which, by the way, I will be watching. And if Flannel does require 'policing' as you put it, I will.22:08
mnainesFlannel, you still here?22:13
Flannelmnaines: Indeed22:14
FlannelI was just being patient if you were having a conversation with Pricey or whatnot22:15
mnainesI was in IM...He helped me understand one of the guidelines better22:15
Myrttihooray for Pricey22:16
mnainesAnyway, Flannel, you told me to wait until today to talk about the ban...Now, why don't we go over what it will take to get the ban removed22:18
FlannelIn general, bans are put in place because someone is being disruptive.  They're removed when that disruption is unlikely to happen again.22:22
mnainesMy problem is people being directed to a room that isn't active enough that they will get the help they need22:23
mnainesThat's the whole reason I questioned the ops in the first place...Because someone said that they tried other rooms and those rooms were dead or dying and they were still redirected to other rooms22:24
Flannelmnaines: But do you understand how we can't take that stance? It would render #ubuntu completely unhelpful22:25
mnainesWell, I didn't know if you guys check the activity in the rooms before you direct people to them...That was my mistake, and why I questioned you guys22:26
Flannelmnaines: In general they tend to be the official support channels for the various projects, why should we question their activity?22:27
FlannelYes, some times of day the room may be dead, but that's true of every project.  There are some times of day in #ubuntu you can't get support for X or Y, because no one's active at that time that knows about it22:27
mnainesThat's something I've always been afraid of...I try to help any way I can just to minimize the impact of such situations22:28
FlannelAfraid of what?  There's nothing wrong with that situation.22:29
FlannelYou state your question succinctly and with enough information, and then wait for someone to wake up and answer it.  (at least, in the "dead" channels)22:29
mnainesIts hard to tell who is a corporate user and who is a home user, and a majority of the corporate users, the longer they wait for help on a problem, the more money their company loses22:29
Flannelsomeone will wake up and answer it22:29
FlannelAdding to the noise in #ubuntu doesn't help anyone though.22:30
FlannelWe are not the catchall for support22:30
mnainesIts similar setup to a call center, and I've never worked in a call center, nor do I want to work in one22:30
FlannelIf I remember correctly, it was a FreeBSD person, people in #ubuntu *dont* know how FreeBSD works, so it's likely they'll have to wait as long, if not longer, for someone to be able to help the.22:31
mnainesI think the issue that got me banned was that guy who was trying to dual-boot Vista and Ubuntu22:31
mnainesI tried talking him out of Vista and that's when I was banne22:31
mnainesbanned*22:31
FlannelYou weren't being helpful, that's what got you banned.22:32
FlannelIt had nothing to do with the fact that Vista was involved.22:32
Flannelor, Win7, or whatever it was.22:32
Flannelwell, didn't get you banned, but contributed to it.22:33
mnainesVista and Windows 7 are the same thing...Just that Microsoft slimmed down Vista and called the new version Windows 7 after too many people complained about how bloated Vista was22:33
FlannelThat's not relevant to your ban, so lets just skip it22:35
mnainesok22:35
mnainesThe main thing is I'm new to IRC, so I'm not used to which rooms are open and which are not...22:36
Flannel"open"?22:37
topylievery channel has a topic mnaines. observe it. that's how irc works22:37
mnainesActive22:37
FlannelI'm not sure how activity is really relevant to this discussion either22:37
mnainesBasically my point is, I wouldn't know which rooms to direct a person to because I'm new to IRC...And I don't like just sitting around and watching because of my inexperience22:38
FlannelThe best way to get experience is to observe.  You're not the only person in the room, so you don't need to feel responsible to respond to everyone22:39
FlannelSomeone who *can* help the person (either through support, or redirection) will step in and do so22:39
mnainesI learn best by getting my hands dirty...22:39
mnainesI've never been the type who learns from lectures...I learn from doing, not watching or listening22:40
FlannelIf you do that in #ubuntu, you'll just give people bad advice or cause confusion22:40
mnainesThat's why I rely on my own experiences when I give help...If I don't have experience in something, I don't give help22:41
FlannelExcept you weren't giving help with the windows guy, you were just ranting and adding noise to the channel22:41
topylimnaines: you have a good idea there. if you don't have experience in something, you don't help in that specific area22:42
FlannelWe already discussed this a few days ago, you were told to come back today.22:42
topyliin others you do, you help there22:42
mnainesSometimes my "I don't want to see you make the same mistakes I did" mentality kicks in, but 90% of the time, it kicks in at the wrong times22:42
FlannelFor all you know, he already had Vista and wanted to install Ubuntu.  All your rant was doing was turning him off to the whole idea.22:43
ikonianot this again22:44
mnainesikonia, knock it off.  You are not a part of this conversation, so keep your mouth shut and quit your belly-aching22:44
Priceymnaines: Please reread what you just said.22:44
Priceyikonia, topyli, please allow Flannel this conversation.22:44
ikoniaI won't be interupting22:45
ikoniaI won't be spoken to like that though22:45
topyliright, sorry22:46
ikoniaFlannel: I strongly suggest leaving the ban in place as it's clear this person still has an attitude problem. Over to you.22:46
mnainesWell, ikonia, you were the one who jumped into the middle of the conversation then complained about what was being said.  Sorry for being rude, but I really don't like whiners22:46
mnainesThe simple solution would have been to ask what the conversation was about then once you got the answer you could have expressed your opinion on the matter22:48
FlannelAlright, back on track.22:49
mnainesYes...I am excusing the interruption now that I have spoken my mind22:49
Flannelmnaines: Do you see where your reaction to him wanting to dual boot became a problem though?22:50
mnainesYes, I do...I wasn't given the full information on what his problem was...I let my hatred of Vista take over22:51
FlannelAnd worse, you didn't stop when you were asked to22:52
mnainesThat was another thing I need to learn to control...Knowing when to keep my mouth shut...I know everyone has problems with that on certain days22:53
FlannelWhich is really the core of the matter, since everyone wanders offtopic at some point or another and needs a gentle nudging back22:53
mnainesEspecially after really stressful days...Self-discipline gets harder to do as your stress level goes up22:54
FlannelYou should take it upon yourself to just not IRC on those days22:55
mnainesThose days, my stress reliever is video games, but IRL, my lazy stepfather calls me down to do something for him every few minutes, so the stress level doesn't go down as quickly as I would like22:56
FlannelWe all have things outside of IRC we need to deal with.  You just need to make sure you deal with them responsibly.22:56
PriceyHi stefg, can I help you?22:56
mnainesOf course, but its his house, his rules...If I don't like his rules, my only option is to leave, and I have no money nor do I have any place to go, so I'm stuck here22:57
stefgplease someone kick Admin_22:57
macostefg: which channel?22:57
Flannelstefg: #u22:57
ikoniaI'm watching him22:57
Flanneler, maco22:57
stefgin #ubuntu .. DCC  the channel with something looking malware-ish22:57
ikoniastefg: all sorted22:57
stefgthx22:57
mnainesikonia: A guy with the same screen name has been attacking online gaming servers, too...22:58
mnainesThe police were called on the guy once already22:58
ikoniathat's not for this channel please22:58
Myrttimnaines: that screen name is far from unique22:58
Flannelmnaines: How is that relevant?22:58
mnainesFlannel, its not...I was just informing him of that in case it turns out to be the same person...That way you guys would know what measures have already been taken22:59
mnainesI'm pretty sure you guys would want to know if there's a malicious user on the prowl, so that's why I said that23:02
Myrttiback to issue at hand?23:03
mnainesVery well23:03
mnainesAnyway, most of my behavior issues come from stress...My self control usually goes off a cliff if I've had too much caffeine or if I get stressed out23:07
mnainesBut then again, I think that happens to everyone23:08
mnainesI'm working on changing that, but its a time consuming and challenging process23:08
Flannelmnaines: It does, and they "fix" it by just excusing themselves from IRC when it's a bad idea.23:09
topylinobody is interested in why someone misbehaves on irc. just don't. go for a walk23:10
mnainesFlannel, the other thing I am trying to "fix" is knowing when to keep my mouth shut and stop spontaneously jumping into the middle of conversations when I don't have all the information23:12
mnainesI do that a lot IRL, too23:12
Flannelmnaines: It's up to you to keep yourself in line, and it's our responsibility to make sure people do that (and force them to if they can't do it themselves).23:12
mnainesHey...I'm working on it...But as I said, its time consuming and challenging...23:12
mnainesI know its something I need to do IRL, though23:13
Flannelmnaines: If you think you can police yourself, and won't go off the deep end if you need help from us in the future (like you did a few days ago), I'd consider giving you the benefit of the doubt and removing the ban.23:13
mnainesI'm trying to police myself...Its a bumpy road for anyone my age, but I'm trying my best23:14
Flannelmnaines: And do you think you'd react better in the future if we need to step in and help?23:15
mnainesI wouldn't mind you guys helping...Just don't try to stress me out anymore than I already am at the time23:16
mnainesBest way to help is just to give me time to vent...Usually once I vent, my stress level goes back down and I return to normal23:18
FlannelNo one tries to stress you out; we just try to keep the channels usable for everyone.23:18
topylimnaines: no. that's not acceptible23:18
Flannelmnaines: That's why we suggested you come back in a few days, which, I might add, you didn't really follow.23:18
mnainesBecause it doesn't take that long for me to calm down23:18
Flannelmnaines: but "venting" doesn't mean go to a different channel and act rudely23:18
mnainesUsually when I have to vent, letting me vent for an hour or so is enough23:19
Flannelmnaines: It's a safe period of time to ensure you've had a chance to think about stuff.23:19
topyliyou never "vent" on ubuntu channels23:19
mnainestopyli: If there was a room for people to vent their stress, I would use it when I need to23:20
macomake one?23:20
maco##venting?23:20
Flannelor, use real life.23:20
macoi find sitting down with a good novel is a nice way to relax23:21
mnainesSpeaking of RL, I have to go get dinner, so I'll come back in and finish this once I'm back home23:21
MezUsing real life for relieving stress is good.. My advice... step away from the computer, go for a walk.. (or, normally in my case, a smoke) and come back later :D23:21
topylimnaines: the thing is, we're concerned about ubuntu channels. if you bother them, and people are bothered, they will ask you to stop or change the subject. please do so. or go jogging or watch a movie23:22
macohe's gone23:22
topylithe channels are not for that23:22
topylioh my masterpiece is lost! :)23:22
genii-aroundHehe topyli23:22
topyliFlannel: i salute the Patient One23:25
FlannelWould've been nice to make some more progress, but I suppose that's what once-home is for.23:27
FlannelAlright, I'm going to go play with circuit breakers.  I'll be back in a smidge hopefully.23:27
Mez-!- Flannel [n=flannel@ubuntu/member/flannel] has disconnected ["Oops, wrong breaker"]23:28
FlannelNo, that's why I'm leaving, because I've gotta power off my server.23:28
Mezthis reminds me of one of the "Darwin Awards"23:29
Mezhttp://www.nndb.com/people/523/000095238/23:31
topyliwe used to just kick the poles right where the maintenance cover is. you kick there, the light goes out from that pole for about 5min23:40
topylinot sure if they still do, this was in the 70s23:40
topyliso we ran around the block and put out all the lights and said woohoo it's dark23:41
topylidon't ask me why, we were 5 to 8 or so23:41
* genii-around sips23:42
topylihmm haven't tried for about 30 years, i'm sort of curious whether or not they still go out if you give them a good kick right there :)23:46
mnainesok...I am back.  Had boneless honey barbecue wings from Wendy's for dinner23:54

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