[15:27] how to tell damn upstart to restart mysqld? [15:27] it says that "start: Job is already running: mysql" [15:27] and I would like to say [15:27] "wrong, bitch, that job is dead and you have a stale PID file, now stfu and restart it" [15:28] how to convey such a message to the upstart, since I can't find the lock file anywhere [15:34] hmm ok just running restart also helps