[18:44] valorie: when you get a chance- I would like to get some thoughts from you [18:44] I saw quote about all of the community over -reacting [18:44] I did- others did - you did NOT [18:44] well not all of the community [18:45] You were fair- and I DONT like the idea of you being painted by the same brush as others [18:45] just those who over-react [18:45] it was kind of vague as to who that was [18:45] The way it was worded was wrong [18:45] but I think it was discounting everyone involved in the discussion [18:45] yes [18:45] it was [18:45] It was like a.... If you are concerned then you are over-reacting so stop it [18:45] if nobody was concerned [18:46] well thats not healthy [18:46] concern is a form of health check for the community [18:46] Yes [18:46] And without me having official memebrship [18:46] The fact others were spoke to [18:46] aye [18:46] And I was NOT- speaks volumes, IMHO [18:47] Again, this dialog looks like it can be a bridge [18:47] MarkDude: Heh at a session earlier today I said membership is often put on a pedestal [18:47] and pointed out how many people dont have membership and dont want it and still are rockstars in the community [18:47] Either the stuff they said is true, and solutions will sort out [18:47] nathwill and cody smith [18:47] finn [18:47] all great work they have done [18:47] Or their words are a foot or two in mouth [18:47] * MarkDude is betting on bridge [18:48] they tried to get me as a signer of CoC [18:48] Once I pointed out I NEVER signed anything minus the ORIGIANL CoC [18:48] That was dropped :) [18:48] Thats why I am here [18:49] They cant get me directly [18:49] Looks like they are making efforts in my other project - lol [18:49] [18:49] * MarkDude IS an a-hole. EVERYONE is shocked [18:50] The next step here is to look at solution based options [18:52] MarkDude: To what extent does the CoC end and a individuals private life begin? [18:53] To me [18:53] NONE [18:54] the orginal CoC does nothing to provate life [18:54] The specifics on it now? [18:54] Not sure [18:54] Me GOING to UDS supposedly made it softer [18:54] Even after the time was switched to the one day I let be known in public- I was NOT available [18:55] They DO have a practice of using CoC to threaten to remove Membership [18:55] I can offer no specifcs on this- its mostly NDA [18:56] Altho - a few are pondering dropping their NDA