[07:26] <foo> Reverse tunneling with ssh, trying to expose a lapto behind NAT to public. I do this: ssh -fN -R 1.1.1.1:10022:localhost:22 relayserver_user@1.1.1.1 ... I can see it's running, but when I try to connect to it with ssh -p 10022 homeserver_user@1.1.1.1 it says "Connection refused" ... granted, from 1.1.1.1, I can see it running on port 10022
[07:32] <foo> I wonder if I'm missing something
[14:06] <foo> Alright, going to try this again - had to sleep on it. :) I have computer A behind NAT (residential). I don't know the IP, it changes. I want to ssh in and access this computer remotely from computer B. I have a linux droplet at digital ocean I can use. I *thought* I can set up a reverse ssh tunnel to connect to computer A behind NAT... but I can't seem to get it. I don't want to fuss with port 
[14:06] <foo> forwarding. I used to have this all set up and working with something like this: .... OHHHH. I was using serveo, which I took offline. Ok, that's why this broke. 
[14:06] <foo> In that case, what are my options here if I wanted to use something else? *researches
[20:35] <znf> foo, tailscale/zerotier