[04:43] <Scary_Guy> so I finally figured out what is making things slow and screwing up the keyring.  When I tried removing dbus-user-session and xdg-desktop-portal (and related) most things started working right away again with no slowdown.  Problem is it completely broke my audio.
[15:57] <Scary_Guy> https://bbs.archlinux.org/viewtopic.php?id=285590 Whelp if this don't just sound exactly like my problem.
[16:25] <Scary_Guy> https://bugs.debian.org/cgi-bin/bugreport.cgi?bug=1050911 Apparently my problem is I use i3wm.
[17:33] <Scary_Guy> I was logging in wrong.  It didn't like that I wasn't using a display manager.  Oh well
[17:33] <Scary_Guy> Had to make an i3.desktop entry in
[17:34] <Scary_Guy> /user/share/xsessions/
[18:22] <cmaloney> oh that's fun